Motherhood is such a sacred institution in many cultures and our society that it is romanticized to a fault.
But there are mothers who weren't equipped to raise a a child even IF they tried their best.
If you're the adult child of a mean or narcissistic mother, you may feel:
- Like you are constantly being criticized just as harshly as your mother, you may also criticize others just as harshly too.
- You are constantly defending yourself, trying to prove to the world that deep down inside you ARE good enough and worthy of love.
- You feel disconnected from your mother, like you didn't bond with her, and feel like there's something missing in your heart. You've also blamed yourself for this disconnection.
- You don't know who you are: what your interests, skills strengths are because you were taught to focus only on your mother and her needs.
- You have a harsh inner critic that constantly judges every decision you make.
- You may be indecisive, lack self-confidence even if you're really accomplished, and overall feel insecure.
"Just gave me the feeling of not being alone, made me feel hopeful that I can heal, made me feel like I was part of a family, and made me feel not alone. Confidence booster. See above, it is a worthy and necessary investment. Ruth is special as she understands it from a POC (person of colour) point of view and navigates complex situations with ease and compassion. You can also be assured that Ruth won’t judge you. "
- Workshop Client
Hi, I’m Ruth - Mother Wound Mentor + Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist
I specialize in helping adult children heal from narcissistic mothering. It was in my late 20s when I realized something wasn't right.
I was very defensive, insecure, felt like I was constantly criticized, and overall didn't feel worthy of love.
It wasn't until I looked into my past and realized I carried a heavy mother wound that.
Through years of healing, research and certifications I have been able to get to a place where I am truly content with my life and not constantly seeking validation from external sources.
I now specialize in helping daughters heal their mother wounds and get their life back.
You are worthy!